Getting back to business

So....I've taken a break recently from actively trying to discern God's will for J and me.  I finished a rosary novena for peace with my folks after I told them J and I were dating again and we all went through the subsequent turmoil.  Overall, their recovery was a lot quicker than I thought!  Since then, well since the last week of May, we have been waiting for the slowest judge on earth to come to a verdict on whether J's dad's live-in-girlfriend was a common law wife, and thus entitled to a large chunk of the inheritance.  He said he'd have the verdict to them in 4 days.....we just passed the month mark!!!  It is insane.  So I had been waiting on that to start the final push on discernment because I felt my prayers right now are split.  Finally last Tuesday I began a rosary novena.  I've tried several times (about once a week) to start one over the past month, always missing days and then giving up.  I have made it a week now...so I'm going to keep to it and hopefully I'll finally find peace by the end of it!